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I dated
this girl for about a year in a half. When I first met her I thought there
was something very off with her. She was packed and ready to move to MD
with a guy she has met through work. She flew back there to meet him
stayed for 10 days came back and packed her stuff. That's' when I come
into the picture. She told me within the first week that for her to stay,
she would need to have her breast's done, go to South Africa in 6 months
to visit her grandmother, would need a place to live etc. Something was
just plain off here.......so I ran a background check on her. I found out
she had 4 arrests in FL where she was from. Two for domestic violence, one
for trespassing and one for felony grand theft. Of course she had a great
explanation for all of them. Of course I continued to date her, I mean
hell she was hot, a former professional model and the sex was good! After
a few months she started to go psycho on me, I would come home from work
and she would get angry because I was late, throw things around. After a
few more months the physical violence stated. Needless to say I had to
call the police 11 times during the relationship for her hitting me. Well,
I knew the relationship was winding down and I really wanted to make sure
this girl paid for her actions. So here is what I did: I was making her
car payments so I gave her my checking account number and let her make two
payments. Then I called the bank and told them that she was not authorized
to make any transactions so they reversed the charges. Now at this point
she is behind over two months and coming up to the third month. I tell her
something must be wrong here and let it drag on a few more weeks. Now at
this point she is 3 months behind, the bank is calling me (she used my
office as her work number) telling me that if she does not make a payment
her car will be repossed. Of course I don't give her the messages. She is
now living in Las Vegas and I live here in Los Angeles. Of course they
don't know where the car is....so the next day they call and tell me that
they are going to take the car I ask them if they have her current address
so they can sent her a letter to tell her that. Of course I give it to
them knowing that the only reason they want it is to haul the car away.
And guess what? Two days later, she comes out in the AM to go to work and
the car is gone. Of course I know nothing about it :) It gets better, I
was paying her cell phone....I kept on telling her that I would take care
of it. For two weeks I send her text messages from the wireless text page
as if Customer Service was telling her that the account was past due and
her service was going to be interrupted (which was true) after about two
weeks of that I finally told her I would pay the $601.00 bill. Then I sent
her (customer service) a text message stating "thank you for your $601.00
payment. Please go to www.xxxxx.com to fill out a brief customer
satisfaction survey" Of course she is totally buying this.....two days
later her cell phone is shut off for failure to pay :) Even better then
all of that. I finally get the DA in Las Vegas to review the case and file
Domestic Violence charges against her. She hit me numerous times and even
tried to run me over with her car, I mean this girl truly IS psycho. OF
course they have an old address of hers when we lived together, and I
don't have her new address (I know where she works though) so she get a
summons to appear, does not show. I call the court to find out what
happened. I tell them that I don't think she is living there anymore and I
can provide them with her work address. They tell me they can't do that,
so her next court date is July 20th. Now of course I'm not going to tell
her, so a warrant will be issued for her arrest. Guess who will call the
police and tell them where to pick her up :) I did tell her about her
domestic violence charge here in CA (yes hit me here too) that is on the
13th of July. She told me that since she was not informed then they
couldn't hold her accountable for not showing up (not really true). So of
course I HAD to sent her the letter I got which spells out the charges
against her to her WORK! (Just keeping her in the loop) :) Of course I had
to fax the background check showing her arrests to all 5 fax machines at
her office! I remember when we met; I did a search on the Internet on her
name. It would have been nice if I had found something then in the first
few weeks. Of course nothing came up, IT DOES NOW! Just trying to help a
fellow brother out! A goggle search for <name removed>. |