STORY # 0015

   I fell in love with a guy and before I knew it, we were buying a house together.  I had owned a house, he had rented, so I should have known better, but I did it anyway.  Before the move, the "boyfriend" came up with a plan for me to sign my car over to my 19 year old daughter, he gave me his current vehicle, and went out and bought a new car.    (he never legally signed the vehicle over to me, but we were IN LOVE!!!!   what did I know!!) Anyway, the whole process of buying the new house, selling my old house and moving all of our stuff into one home was VERY stressful.  We moved into the new house before I finalized the sale of my old house.  On the VERY NIGHT I finalized my sale and no longer had ownership of my old home, we had a small disagreement over whose dining room furniture should go in the dining room.  It lead to him completely losing control.......and yelling "take your BLEEPING son, and get the BLEEP out of my house". Because of all the stress, I did exactly that, figured we both needed time apart, and took the VEHICLE OF HIS I HAD BEEN DRIVING FOR 3 MONTHS and went to my parents summer home for the weekend with my son.  He kept calling me, leaving me messages on my cell phone, telling me I better get home....or he would report HIS car stolen.  My thoughts were..."who would do that to someone you love??" All weekend he kept leaving messages, but I just kept ignoring them.  I needed a break too.   On Sunday afternoon, I arrived back at our new home to find him out at the back yard in the pool area.  He came over to me, and wanted me to just give him a kiss and a hug, but I was still very upset over the whole thing...and how he so easily lost control and told me to leave two days before.  I said no to his request for a kiss.... He immediately grabs his cell phone off of his belt, dials 911, and says " the person who stole the car I reported stolen two days ago is here with the vehicle"  I couldn't believe it!!!!!!!!!    Within 5 minutes, 2 police cars, 3 officers are in my backyard, and I'm trying to explain that I am not a thief!!!   They didn't arrest me, but I did get summonsed into court and faced   UNAUTHORIZED USE OF A MOTOR VEHICLE charges, which he ended up dropping the charges.  Its still on my PREVIOUSLY 100% clean record. 
Of course I left, and stayed with family for a few days, but I went back...only to have numerous blowouts, false restraining orders that he wouldn't have served, but would threaten me to do what he wanted or else he would call and say I was there.  It lasted for 14 months.  The worst 14 months of my life.  I finally walked away.....and never went back.  He had to get the last word in though......  He put all my belongings into storage units when we sold the house.  I got a call one day from his ex-wife.  She just wanted to let me know that while he was putting my living room set in storage....he found a snake in the backyard, and told his kids it needed a WARM place to live for the winter, and proceeded to put it in my sofa in the storage unit.  Imagine doing that in front of small children. 
This is DEFINITELY a PSYCHOTIC MAN!!!!!!!!!

  I feel bad for the next woman, because I had been warned also, but thought it was just a SCORNED EX-WIFE......I was wrong.

 
Anonymous Somewhere, USA

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